Dear Aunty Slut, How do I let my boyfriend know that I like kinky sex? (I don’t mean like, gimp masks and flaying and scat or anything, just, you know, a bit kinky.) How do I tell him I like to be held down a little, without him thinking...
Dear Aunty Slut, My beautiful girlfriend is a virgin, has never masturbated before and has had a few inexperienced boyfriends. When we’ve tried to have sex, she’s far too tight, I’m on the bigger side and she’s 2 fingers really tight. I can make her cum without penetration and...
Dear Aunty Slut, I found some texts in my guy’s phone that really upset me. They were to some girl he calls ‘babe’ and ‘sexy’. The texts are mostly about liking sexual stuff that he’s never mentioned to me. I confronted him about it and he got really defensive...
Dear Aunty Slut,I want to take my boyfriend on a date (unconventional, I know) Do have any suggestions on what we could do? Keran Dear Keran, Bollocks to conventional: dating is a thing. In fact- dating should be more of a thing. Instead of going out and feeling people...
Dear Aunty Slut, My boyfriend is lovely but his best friend is a real dickhead. He talks about women like they aren’t human, (“the one with the big boobs”) he gets petulant when he can’t ‘pull’ some girl to sleep with him (whining about how ‘bitchy’ girls in Hamilton...
Dear Aunty Slut, I’m a girl who’s always been a little bit curious about anal sex but afraid it’s going to hurt. What’s the best position to go for to make it more comfortable for a first timer? Sincerely, Anonymous Dear Anonymous, Until recently, anal sex was not on...
Dear Aunty Slut, How can I last longer when having sex? It’s getting embarrassing, and it’s at the point where I feel so anxious about it I’m avoiding it. My current girlfriend is amazing- she tells me she takes it as a compliment but I can tell she’s frustrated...
Aunty Slut is tired of hearing about groping. This week alone I’ve had three questions from girls wondering what they can do to stop being felt up in town. I’m sure they teach the difference between good touching and bad touching at primary school, but it appears most of...
Dear Aunty Slut, I like porn. A lot. I think it’s sexy but my girlfriend is really anti it. I’d like to watch it together and maybe have a sexy time, but she’s just not keen. How can I tell her it’s harmless? Screen Addict Dear Screen Addict, I’m...
Dear Aunty Slut, I’ve been seeing this guy for a week or so, we haven’t had sex yet but yesterday we did a bunch of other stuff (which was fun) but now I’m worried I’m not going to like having sex with him because he has a small one....
