One way or another, porn is a touchy subject. Its ideological battleground runs the gambit from people who equate porn with rape, seeing it the two as theoretical and practical sides of the same coin; to self-identified feminist pornstars, who insist that their career is empowering. It’s just as...
Dear Aunty Slut, My boyfriend and I were having sex the other day and when we finished we noticed that my period started. I didn’t think much of it but my boyfriend was completely grossed out and yelled that I should have told him that I was due. Is...
Dear Aunty Slut, I’ve been dating this guy for about 6 months now. He’s a bit older than me, and we wanted to take it slow, so held off having sex until we knew we were really into each other. We started sleeping together a month ago, but even...
Dear Aunty Slut, How do I let my boyfriend know that I like kinky sex? (I don’t mean like, gimp masks and flaying and scat or anything, just, you know, a bit kinky.) How do I tell him I like to be held down a little, without him thinking...
Dear Aunty Slut, My beautiful girlfriend is a virgin, has never masturbated before and has had a few inexperienced boyfriends. When we’ve tried to have sex, she’s far too tight, I’m on the bigger side and she’s 2 fingers really tight. I can make her cum without penetration and...
Dear Aunty Slut, I found some texts in my guy’s phone that really upset me. They were to some girl he calls ‘babe’ and ‘sexy’. The texts are mostly about liking sexual stuff that he’s never mentioned to me. I confronted him about it and he got really defensive...
Dear Aunty Slut,I want to take my boyfriend on a date (unconventional, I know) Do have any suggestions on what we could do? Keran Dear Keran, Bollocks to conventional: dating is a thing. In fact- dating should be more of a thing. Instead of going out and feeling people...
Dear Aunty Slut, My boyfriend is lovely but his best friend is a real dickhead. He talks about women like they aren’t human, (“the one with the big boobs”) he gets petulant when he can’t ‘pull’ some girl to sleep with him (whining about how ‘bitchy’ girls in Hamilton...
Dear Aunty Slut, I’m a girl who’s always been a little bit curious about anal sex but afraid it’s going to hurt. What’s the best position to go for to make it more comfortable for a first timer? Sincerely, Anonymous Dear Anonymous, Until recently, anal sex was not on...
