In honour of this week, there’s no shame in wanting to peg or be pegged by someone. In my situation, I’m a woman pegging some lucky guy, but this shouldn’t deter anyone from relating to this piece. It’s actually quite invigorating and a massive release (lol) and I couldn’t recommend it more. In celebration of pegging and all it is good for, here’s some songs that will help set the mood when you’re feeling like hitting it a bit different.

 

Breathe by Umi

 

First off, what a fucking jam. But honestly, the slow rhythmic beats help with timing and making sure you’re going at a steady pace and letting your partner feel one with your soul. Plus, no one wants to be jack-hammered when being hit from behind. The lyrics are helpful – “I hope you’re breathing,” because you’re gonna need it. 

 

Vroom Vroom by Charli XcX

 

While a bit more upbeat then the last one, Charli definitely makes songs that are best suited to pegging your boyfriend to. Or girlfriend. There’s nothing like an upbeat jam to get you going. “Let’s ride” – damn straight, Charli >:)

“U.N.I.T.Y.” by Queen Latifah

 

One from my brown girlies, Queen Latifiah definitely gets what we’re going for. As a queer woman, I’m sure she’s had her fair share of pegging adventures, and that makes me respect her sooooo much more. What an absolute queen, giving us everything we need.

 

BMO by Ari Lennox

 

I think that perhaps Ari Lennox will always be a regular part of my playlists because she’s genuinely a queen and I love her. That being said, BMO gives you absolutely everything you need to get in the groove for exploring some untouched territory. Make sure you have some candles lit and set the scene accordingly – be romantic with it. 

 

Woman by Ke$ha 

 

Nothing, and I do mean NOTHING screams control like Ke$ha singing praises on wāhine. Woman is an anthem that empowers you, gives you the strength to go on and do the damn thing – even if the damn thing is lubing up a phallic object and shoving it inside your intimate partner. That’s something that requires the strength and power to move forward. Go forth, ya power bitches.

 

Jerome by Lizzo

 

Lizzo is someone that immediately comes to mind when I think about reclaiming control and being on top. She’s one of the most empowering singers that I’ve had the pleasure and privilege to listen to. And while there’s some beats that I think may be better suited to sexy times with your partner, the R&B jam that is Jerome allows you to feel her emotions and frustrations that I’m sure fit well with fucking that special someone. Listen to her angst and tell me that’s not the best pegging beat, you’re a liar if you disagree.