Q: Should I change tutorials because there are no cute guys in the one I’m in?
A: Yes absolutely. Jk, but having people in your tutorial you enjoy the company of can be 50/50. The most important thing in your tutorial is of course to work on your learning and assignments, but I know the social aspect is always a plus. If you are looking to meet someone, joining a club at uni or a sports team is a great way to meet someone. You can also email [email protected] and Nexus will set you up on our blind date 😉
Q: How to get a boyfriend?
A: Idk honestly half the time you just have to be yourself and let it happen. You don’t want to date someone who won’t love you for who you are, and you shouldn’t have too either. I have also asked some guys what they like in a partner so here are their tips:
This second one is obviously a bit of give and take, but general rule: don’t settle for the bare minimum even if the bar is in hell because you deserve more than that diva.
Most of all, be confident, if you love yourself first it shows from the inside out and people think confidence is sexy. If all else fails, Tinder is always an option.
Q: How do I stop hooking up with a married man?
A: If the person is married and their spouse is unaware and unconsenting, the best thing for everyone is to get out of that situation as soon as possible. Obviously, your safety is important but if you can get out of whatever form of relationship, definitely do so. If it’s wanting maybe you need to distract yourself when you want to hook up with him or go out and find someone new, remind yourself that if he’s married and cheating then he’s obviously not a good person to be sleeping with and both you and especially their spouse deserve better. If you feel it is appropriate to do so have an honest conversation with the man and explain that this is not a fair situation and that you need to stop seeing each other. You should also think about letting the spouse know and apologising.
