SEX IN THE TRON
Sure, you can drive a car, pay your rent, and get a degree. By all definitions, you are now an adult. Except, perhaps, for one thing – can you give good head? Warning: this is not PG content.
Eating Pussy
Women have been hardwired to believe that their pleasure isnโt necessary. Weโre subsequently far less likely to masturbate, learn what we like, and so itโs no surprise that most women struggle to reach climax. Paired with that, we also know that most men have literally no idea how to make a woman cum. So fuck it, letโs start the sorely needed sex ed they donโt teach in high school.
Why is oral sex important? Well, picture going down a waterslide without water: foreplay is key. Every person is going to be different, but if I could write a handbook, here are some general rules.
First of all, when youโre down there, do NOT make eye contact. Donโt even look up. For the next half hour, she does NOT want to see you. Accept it. This is super different to the male orgasm (where, letโs face it, guys love watching their dick get balls deep in the mouth of a doe-eyed blonde). She needs to really concentrate to reach climax, and for that, you need to let her enter her own world; it certainly canโt be done if sheโs busy trying to somehow look attractive when you look up at her from a prime double-chin angle.
Secondly, make it suspenseful. You arenโt at a fucking Gengyโs buffet on your tenth birthday – draw it out. Whatever you do, do NOT rip her legs open and go ham at it like a pig at a trough. Tease her. Youโre going to be doing this for a while, so strap in, be patient, and donโt expect her to cum after five minutes of DJโing on her clit (yes thatโs a thing, and yes, we will probably talk about it. Donโt be that person). Itโs going to take some time, ball park 15 to 40 minutes. So to begin with, trace your tongue down her body, touch her, kiss her inner thigh, and treat her more preciously than a goddamn 3pm Bubble OโBill from your primary schoolโs local dairy on a 30 degree summerโs day (if you donโt know what Iโm talking about, youโre too young to be reading this).
Start off with some super light licking, still keeping it slow and gentle, and if youโre a pro, quiver your tongue like youโre her favourite vibrator.
Thirdly, keep in mind that every vagina is different. Oh, and if you donโt know where the clitoris is by now, then for Godโs sake get your head out of your arse and Google it – just remember itโs not the only part of the vulva you want to pay attention to. Direct clitoral stimulation can be downright painful for most women, especially if youโre nose diving straight into it without a warm-up. Some women are super sensitive in their nether regions and light, flat, tongue strokes are better, while others can take atmospheric pressure and full clit suction. The only way to find out is to try things out, ask her, and respond to what she likes. No joke, get her to pull on your hair when youโre doing something right. If she seems tense, or her legs are pressed close together, itโs probably a sign that sheโs not comfortable. Take her cues and go more softly, or move your tongue off completely until sheโs more relaxed. On the other hand, if her legs are wide open, sheโs breathing heavily and itโs gushing down there, youโre on the right track.
Donโt fear, you donโt need to perform crazy tongue acrobatics to be a pro. Try out a few simple movements – circular motions, up and down, side to side, pulsating, throw in a figure 8 or an alphabet for more variety. Put your fingers to work. And hey, learn to talk dirty, you little prudes – women are conditioned to feel like our orgasm is too difficult, time-consuming, and gross, so make it clear youโre having the time of your life. I canโt emphasise this enough. Groan, tell her how much you like eating her pussy, how good she tastes, how you could go down on her for hours, how turned on you are…when it comes to compliments, go. To. Town. When itโs clear youโre enthusiastic, sheโs going to feel far more at ease, more turned on, and more likely to achieve the big O. Self-consciousness is no turn on. Itโs a mind game; if her mind is off, so is her orgasm. Once sheโs on the home straight, donโt stop, donโt slow down, and donโt speed up, either. Hold her hips down and keep doing exactly what youโre doing until the finish line.
And that, my friends, is a basic formula for satisfying a woman. Youโre welcome, and yes I do take cash x